Are your children not much more important than your career? Is time spent with your kids not much more valuable than any material thing that you could ever buy them? Is setting a good example of a marriage built on the word of God not worth working out the problems in your relationship? Is sowing the seed of God in your children hearts not much more important than anything else you will ever do as a parent? Allowing your priorities to be established by what the world believes in will keep you from being established in what God believes in. Do not rely on family, friends and or society to guide you on how to be a good husband and father. Rely on the word of God. Seek him in everything!